The Truth About Homes That Sit on the Market

Most delays have nothing to do with the house. Here is what they actually reveal and how smart buyers use it to their advantage.

“The two most powerful warriors are patience and time.”
- Leo Tolstoy

What It Really Means and What Smart Buyers Should Do About It

Every local and international buyer eventually reaches the same moment.
You open a listing, scroll down and see it has been sitting for months.

The instinctive reaction arrives.
“What is wrong with it.”

It feels like a red flag.
But in the Irish market, a long time on the market rarely means what people think. The story is almost always more complex, more human and often more interesting once you know how to interpret it.

Understanding this gives you an advantage. You stop reacting emotionally and start seeing what the market is actually telling you.

What Buyers Often Misinterpret

Most people assume one of two things.
Either there is something wrong with the house or the seller has unrealistic expectations.
Both can be true but neither explains the full picture.

In Ireland, long timelines are usually the result of human friction, not structural defects. When you learn to ask the right questions, you stop seeing the delay as a warning sign and start seeing it as information.

Below are the real reasons properties linger.

Reason One

The seller is anchored to a price the market cannot justify

This is the most common reason.

Irish sellers often set their expectation based on sentiment, memory or personal need. The price becomes an emotional reference point rather than a strategic one. They hold. They wait. They refuse to adjust.

The house itself might be strong.
The expectation is the problem.
And misaligned expectations can be negotiated with the right approach.

Reason Two

Family dynamics, probate or divorce are slowing everything

Many long-listed homes are tied up in situations that buyers never see.

Examples include:
• probate waiting periods
• family disagreements about timing
• siblings who cannot agree on price
• an executor abroad
• separation or divorce that complicates decision making

None of this reflects the quality of the house.
It reflects the complexity of the seller’s world.

Reason Three

The property may effectively be sale agreed

(Silent Sale Agreed as I call it)

This surprises international buyers.

In Ireland, a house can be verbally agreed, informally agreed or almost closed and still remain online unchanged.
Status updates can be slow.
Some sellers prefer not to update until contracts advance.
Agents sometimes wait because the deal could fall through.

What looks like a stale listing may already be spoken for.

Reason Four

There are genuine issues, but they are solvable

Some long-listed homes have real problems, but these are often visible and quantifiable.

Common examples include:
• planning irregularities
• dated interiors
• unmodernised layouts
• work a previous buyer did not want to take on

Visible problems are not the same as fatal problems.
If you can quantify a flaw, you can price it and decide if it is worth addressing.

How Sophisticated Buyers Interpret Delays

The smartest buyers I work with think differently.

They do not rush to judgment.
They do not make assumptions based on fear.
They pause and analyse what is actually influencing the delay.

Because in a tight market, the cleanest, simplest properties often sell first.
The ones with longer stories are sometimes the most interesting because they are misunderstood, not defective.

A long timeline can mean:
• opportunity to negotiate
• fewer competing buyers
• additional leverage
• context others have not bothered to investigate

Serious buyers recognise this pattern quickly.

A Three Step Approach for Clarity

When you encounter a property that has been sitting longer than expected, use this simple process.

Step One. Separate the house from the humans.
Is the delay caused by the building or by the life circumstances of the sellers.
Most of the time, it is the latter.

Step Two. Assess the fundamentals.
Do not get lost in surface details.
Focus on:
• location
• orientation
• layout
• potential
• resale demand
If these fundamentals are strong, the delay becomes far less concerning.

Step Three. Ask the strategic questions.
These include:
• why did previous interest stall
• what is the seller’s real intention
• is there a timeline behind the scenes
• is the guide price emotional or strategic

When you ask the right questions, the truth becomes clear very quickly.

The Real Insight

A long time on the market is not a verdict.
It is only a signal.
And signals are only useful when they are interpreted correctly.

The buyers who make the strongest decisions are the ones who see beyond the public timeline. They understand that property is rarely delayed because of the building itself. It is delayed because people, processes or expectations have become tangled.

When you separate the noise from the truth, you put yourself in a stronger position than most of the market.

If you want help evaluating whether a long-listed property is a risk or an opportunity, I would be glad to walk you through it.